Love your blog like you love your wife and you may not end up with a blog divorce爱你的博客喜欢你爱你的妻子，你可能不会结束，拿出了博客离婚

Posted on July 26, 2007 at 8:59 pm发布于2007年7月26日在下午8时59分

For most people, I feel at least, a blog is just one of those cool “IN” things to do where you can post pictures of yourself drunk or talk about how much you hate school or why you like dogs more than cats.对大多数人来说，我觉得至少，博客只是其中之一，这些酷" ，在"必做之事，您可以张贴照片自己喝醉酒或谈谈你多么憎恨学校或者，你为什么喜欢狗多于猫。 Now that’s fine for the casual blogger, but if you’re into blogging for the long run for whatever reason, to make money or to become an authority, then you have to treat your blog differently: You have to treat you blog like you would treat someone you love .现在的罚款为随意博客的，但如果你到博客为长远来说，不论基于何种原因，要赚钱，还是要成为一个权威，那么你对待你的博客不同： 你已经把你博客一样你对待某人，你的爱 。

It sounds weird, but while I was talking to my wife last night she said “It seems to me sometimes like you love your blog more than you love me!” Now, of course, that is not true, but it got me thinking about how I actually feel about my blog and if that makes any difference in my eventual success or my demise as a blogger.它听起来怪异，但我是说我的妻子昨晚，她说： "在我看来，有时像你们一样爱你的博客比你爱我！ "现在，当然，这是不正确的，但它让我思考如何其实，我觉得对我的博客的话，这使得任何差别在我的最终成功与否，我的消亡作为一个博客。 Blogging is a not just work, it’sa relationship that you form with yourself that needs self-discipline, care, time, energy, focus, uniqueness, fun, will, compromise, patience, forgiveness, and real love.博客是一个不只是工作，这是关系你的形式与自己需要廉洁自律意识，护理，时间，精力，集中，独特，有趣，会妥协，需要耐心，宽恕与真正的爱。

To me that sounded just like my relationship with my wife!我觉得听起来就像我的关系，我的妻子！ We talk about these things all the time to make sure that we stay focused on each other and that both people are happy and content with the way our lives and the relationship is heading.我们谈论这些东西的所有时间，以确保我们集中精力于对方，双方人民感到高兴和内容与方式，我们的生活与关系是对头的。 Even a few weeks of discontent by either party leads to tension, fights, stress, and overall unhappiness.甚至几个星期的不满，任何一方导致紧张，打斗，强调与整体不快。 If that trend continues for too long, people end up drifting apart and getting a divorce! I certainly do not want that to happen with my blog and that’s why I treat it in a similar fashion as I treat my wife (at least for now).如果这种趋势继续下去太久，人们结束了漂流外，并提出离婚！当然，我不希望这种情况发生，与我的博客，这也就是为什么我对待它，在以同样的方式，正如我对待我的妻子（至少现在） 。 Here are some rules I came up with to think about in your relationship:这里有一些规则，我来了想在你的关系：

Rule 1: Do you really love your wife? - Hmmm, if you don’t really love your wife or GF, then you probably are not going to last for very long! 规则1 ：你真的爱你的妻子吗 -h mmm，如果你真的不爱你的妻子，或绿，那么你很可能不会再持续很长时间！ Of course, people make mistakes and marry the wrong people, so it might just be a mistake to try blogging, but that’s one way to learn.当然，人们犯错误娶错了人，所以这可能只是一个错误尝试博客，但是这其中的学习方法。 Or you can make sure that you blog about something that you truly enjoy and can do for long periods of time.或者你可以确保你的博客约东西，你真正享受和可以做的相当长的时间。 Don’t try to blog about what is “hot” or what people think will make the most money, you just won’t be able to last.不要试图博客什么是"热"还是什么人都认为会做出最钱，你刚才将无法持久。 Have a real passion about a topic, not just the drive for money.有一个真正的激情话题，而不仅仅是驱动器的经济效益。

Rule 2: Don’t be sweet before marriage and then an ass afterwards! - What I’m trying to say here is that you should be consistent or at least try to be as consistent as possible! 第2条：不要被甜结婚前，然后是愚蠢的事物事后！ -我尝试在这里说的是你应该是一致或至少尝试采取一致的，尽量！ When people mention relationships that have gone sour, there is always something in there about “Well, he/she just changed and I never knew the real XXX until…” Same thing for blogging!当人们提到关系经历了酸溜溜的，总有那么一些有"好，他/她只是改变了，我从来不知道真正的三十直到… … "同样的事情，为博客！ You don’t want to be pumping out 10 posts a day, burn yourself out, and then post nothing for 1 month while you re-coop.你不想被抽了10个职位，每天烧自己出，然后无关后，为一个月，而你再合作。 Everyone has a certain writing ability inherently, so try to figure that out and stick to it.每个人都具有一定的写作能力在本质上，所以尽量以数字指出，坚持下去。 I started in March and was posting about 7 to 8 posts a day because I was excited, but could not keep it up and have now settled to around 2 posts a day.我开始在3月被调任约7至8个职位一天，因为我很兴奋，但不能继续努力，并已定居的，现在大约2个职位一天。

Rule 3: If you spend 24 hours a day with your wife, you’ll go mad - I don’t think it’s possible for anyone to spend ALL the time together, I don’t care how much they love each other; there needs to be time to be alone or time with friends (together with your wife is fine). 规则3 ：如果您花一天24小时与你的妻子 ， 你会去疯狂 -我不认为这是可能的，任何人花所有时间都在一起，我不在乎花多少钱，相亲相爱;有需要以时间来单独或时间与朋友（连同你的妻子是罚款） 。 For blogging purposes, this means don’t spend all your time on YOUR blog; visit other blogs, post comments, email blog authors, connect to people through FaceBook, MyBlogLog, etc. If you focus constantly on your blog, you might have great content, but you won’t get readers (debatable, but there definitely is more to blogging than just content)为志的目的，这意味着不要花你的时间对你的博客;访问其他博客，发表评论，电子邮件，博客作者，连接到人，通过脸谱limit a search 。等，如果你的重点，不断对你的博客，你可能有很大的内容，但你不会得到读者（商榷，但一定是更以博客不仅仅是内容）

Rule 4: Hopefully, your wife fell in love with you because you were different than everyone else - I’ve learned that the reason my wife and I enjoy spending time with each other is because we find each other interesting.第4条： 但愿你的妻子迷上你，因为你是不同比其他所有人-我已经了解到，因为我太太和我喜欢花时间与对方，是因为我们觉得对方有趣。 We find that the way we express ourselves makes the other laugh or have fun in ways that we would not otherwise have with someone else.我们发现，像我们表达自己，使对方发笑，或有乐趣的方式，我们不会在其他情况下与其他人。 If you’re writing a blog, don’t just regurgitate what others have written.如果您写博客，不只是regurgitate别人写的。 Even if you are writing about something someone else has already written about, you can make your content unique by adding your own opinion or view to it.即使你是在写一些别人已经写过，你可以使你的独特内容，加入自己的意见或看法，以它。 Otherwise, people will find that your blog is not that special and won’t mention it, link back to it, etc.不然，人们就会发现你的博客，是不是特别的不提，连回到它等。

Rule 5: Snapping at your wife will usually lead to unpleasantness - Being patient is probably one of the best things that I like about myself and boy is it needed in a relationship! 规则5 ：弹响在你的妻子通常会导致不适 -耐心可能是一个最好的东西，我喜欢我自己和男孩是，它需要在一个关系！ If you’re one to snap quickly or want to rush things, you’ll be in trouble when it comes to blogging.如果您是其中之一抢购很快，或者想急于东西，你会不会好到哪里，当谈到博客。 Rising in the ranks of good blogs takes a lot of time and effort.崛起的队伍中的好博客要花很多时间和精力。 You need to optimize your blog, wait weeks or months for Google to index it, wait for it to get out of the “sandbox”, wait for people to start reading your blog, etc, etc. There is a lot of waiting and watching involved and results won’t come in a snap !你需要优化你的博客，等待几个星期或几个月内为Google索引它，等待它摆脱了"沙箱" ，等待人们开始读你的博客，等等等等，有很多方面的观望参与和结果，不会在瞬间完成！

Rule 6: A real love relationship is really hard work - Once you get into a serious relationship with someone, it takes work to keep things fun and fresh, it just doesn’t just happen by itself. 规则6 ：一个真正爱关系是真的很辛苦的工作 -当你进入一个严重的合作关系的人，它的工作，使事情乐趣和新鲜，它只是不只是自己发生。 Maybe it does with some people, but in my experience, even if you really love someone, you still have to do special things for that person, sit and talk, compromise on certain issues, etc. When you blog, someone might steal your content or you might install a plugin that deletes your entire blog!也许这与一些人，但根据我的经验，即使你真的喜欢一个人，你还必须做特别的事，那人，静坐和对话，妥协，在某些问题上，等等，当你博客，有人可能会窃取你的内容或者你可能会安装一个插件删除你的整个博客！ You have to be ready to deal with it and put in the effort to make sure things go smoothly.你必须随时准备对付它，并把这项工作，以确保事情的顺利进行。 In love, it’s not just going to your wife and saying I love you, just like in blogging it’s not just about writing posts.在爱里，它不只是要你的妻子，并说我爱你，就像在博客它不只是写作职位。

Rule 7: A strong relationship means that you learn from each other - If you think you know the best way to handle every situation, remember it’s just YOUR opinion and you might be able to learn something from your wife. 规则7 ：一个强大的关系，也就是说，您可以互相学习其他语言 -如果你认为你知道的最佳方式来处理各种情况下，请记住这只是你的看法，你也许能学到一些东西，从你的妻子。 I know that in the 4 months that I’ve been blogging, I really know close to zero of what it takes to become a true professional blogger, so I make it a point to try to read their blogs as much as possible and to ask them a few questions here and there through email.我知道，在4个月内，这是我目前的博客，我真的知道接近零的如何才能成为一个真正的专业博客，所以我决定以点带尝试阅读他们的博客，尽可能多地，并要求他们几个问题，在这里和那里通过电子邮件。 A lot of top bloggers actually respond and are very willing to help.不少热门博客实际上回应，并非常愿意给予帮助。

These are just a few things that popped into my head, but I hope it helps someone figure out what is necessary to become a great blogger. I’m going to try and follow these rules myself and hopefully I can save my blog marriage.这些只是几件让托到我的头，但我希望它有助于有人推算出，要成为一个伟大的博客，我将会尝试并遵循这些规则，我和希望我能拯救我的博客婚姻。

Have any more ideas similar to this that I missed, post a comment!有没有更多的想法相似，这样，我错过了，后一个评论！

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  1. YHO yho said on : 说： August 9th, 2007 at 3:38 pm 2007年8月9日，在下午3点38分

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