あなたのようなあなたのブログを愛あなたの妻愛すればブログの離婚で終らないことができる

2007年7月26日8:59 pmのに掲示される

ほとんどの人々のために、私は少なくとも感じる、学校を憎むか、どの位またはどこに掲示犬を猫よりもっと好むかなぜについてのブログは」酔っているあなた自身または話の映像をできるかする事のそれらの涼しい「のちょうど1つである。偶然のbloggerのためうまくであるので、長期間のためのどういうわけかbloggingにあれば、お金をもうけるか、または権限、そしてあなたに似合うことはあなたのブログを別様に扱わなければならない: あなたが愛する誰かを扱うようにブログ扱わなければならない.

「それはあなたのように私へ時々愛のあなたのブログ多くよりようであることを昨晩彼女が言ったそれは不可解に聞こえるが、私が私の妻に話している間愛する私を!」今度は、当然、それは本当ではないが、いかにについて考えている私をI得た 実際に そのbloggerとして私の終局の成功の相違か私の死亡をすれば私のブログについての感じおよび。 Bloggingは公正ではない仕事である、自己訓練、心配、時間、エネルギー、焦点、独自性、楽しみ、意志、妥協、忍耐、許しおよび実質愛を必要とすることあなたがあなた自身と形作るのは関係である。

私の妻との私の関係のようにちょうど鳴った私に! 私達はこれらの事人々が両方とも方法に幸せ、満足であること私達が互いに集中し続ける私達の生命および関係先頭に立っていることを確かめるためにいつも述べ。どちらかの党による不満の数週間は張力、戦い、圧力および全面的な不幸をもたらす。その傾向が余りに長くのために続けば、人々は離れて漂い、離婚の得を終える! 私によっては確かにそれが私のブログと起こってほしくないし、私が私の妻を扱うと同時にそういうわけでそれを同じように扱う(少なくとも今のところ)。私があなたの関係で約考えるためにと上がったある規則はここにある:

規則1: 実際にあなたの妻を愛するか。 -実際にあなたの妻かGFを愛しなければHmmm、そして非常に長くのためにおそらく持続する行っていない! 当然、人々は間違え、間違った人々を結婚する、従ってそれはbloggingちょうど試みるべき間違いであるかもしれないがそれは学ぶために一方通行である。またはことをあなたによってが偽りなく楽しみ、長い一定期間の間することができる何かについてのブログ確かめることができる。どんな人々が考えるか「熱い」またはほとんどのお金をもうけるものをについてのブログに、どうしてもない最後にできないが試みてはいけない。トピックお金のためのちょうどドライブではなくについての実質の情熱を持ちなさい。

規則2: Don’t be sweet before marriage and then an ass afterwards! - What I’m trying to say here is that you should be consistent or at least try to be as consistent as possible! When people mention relationships that have gone sour, there is always something in there about “Well, he/she just changed and I never knew the real XXX until…” Same thing for blogging! You don’t want to be pumping out 10 posts a day, burn yourself out, and then post nothing for 1 month while you re-coop. Everyone has a certain writing ability inherently, so try to figure that out and stick to it. I started in March and was posting about 7 to 8 posts a day because I was excited, but could not keep it up and have now settled to around 2 posts a day.

Rule 3: If you spend 24 hours a day with your wife, you’ll go mad - I don’t think it’s possible for anyone to spend ALL the time together, I don’t care how much they love each other; there needs to be time to be alone or time with friends (together with your wife is fine). For blogging purposes, this means don’t spend all your time on YOUR blog; visit other blogs, post comments, email blog authors, connect to people through FaceBook, MyBlogLog, etc. If you focus constantly on your blog, you might have great content, but you won’t get readers (debatable, but there definitely is more to blogging than just content)

Rule 4: Hopefully, your wife fell in love with you because you were different than everyone else - I’ve learned that the reason my wife and I enjoy spending time with each other is because we find each other interesting. We find that the way we express ourselves makes the other laugh or have fun in ways that we would not otherwise have with someone else. If you’re writing a blog, don’t just regurgitate what others have written. Even if you are writing about something someone else has already written about, you can make your content unique by adding your own opinion or view to it. Otherwise, people will find that your blog is not that special and won’t mention it, link back to it, etc.

Rule 5: Snapping at your wife will usually lead to unpleasantness - Being patient is probably one of the best things that I like about myself and boy is it needed in a relationship! If you’re one to snap quickly or want to rush things, you’ll be in trouble when it comes to blogging. Rising in the ranks of good blogs takes a lot of time and effort. You need to optimize your blog, wait weeks or months for Google to index it, wait for it to get out of the “sandbox”, wait for people to start reading your blog, etc, etc. There is a lot of waiting and watching involved and results won’t come in a snap!

Rule 6: A real love relationship is really hard work - Once you get into a serious relationship with someone, it takes work to keep things fun and fresh, it just doesn’t just happen by itself. Maybe it does with some people, but in my experience, even if you really love someone, you still have to do special things for that person, sit and talk, compromise on certain issues, etc. When you blog, someone might steal your content or you might install a plugin that deletes your entire blog! You have to be ready to deal with it and put in the effort to make sure things go smoothly. In love, it’s not just going to your wife and saying I love you, just like in blogging it’s not just about writing posts.

Rule 7: A strong relationship means that you learn from each other - If you think you know the best way to handle every situation, remember it’s just YOUR opinion and you might be able to learn something from your wife. I know that in the 4 months that I’ve been blogging, I really know close to zero of what it takes to become a true professional blogger, so I make it a point to try to read their blogs as much as possible and to ask them a few questions here and there through email. A lot of top bloggers actually respond and are very willing to help.

These are just a few things that popped into my head, but I hope it helps someone figure out what is necessary to become a great blogger. I’m going to try and follow these rules myself and hopefully I can save my blog marriage.

Have any more ideas similar to this that I missed, post a comment!